Black Woman Are Underappreciated

I watch youtube alot. I ran across this video with this black guy who was talking about how most black men depreciate their women.  Also, how most black men expect a black woman to look perfect -- big breast, thin waist, round butt, etc. At first I was like, what is he talking about? I stopped to realize that the guy was right. Alot of men are critical of a woman's body and looks, but i'm specifically talking about BLACK MEN in this blog. **NOTE** I'm talking about MOST BM not ALL. Anyway, I thought back to highschool and all the black guys went for the carmel skinned girls with the light brown, hazel, gray or green eyes. The girls had to have long hair and dress nice with all the current stuff. Most of the guys who went after these girls were ugly as hell.

Look at the rap videos these days, the rappers look like sh*t, and the video vixens are beautiful. I hear how a lot of black men are always saying that black women are loud, we demand too much, our tempers are bad, some of us are fat, our hair can't grow, we are over dramatic and how being with a woman of another race is different and so much easier.

What happened to us being seen as a queen, brave, beautiful and a number of other things? All black women aren't loud and quick tempered. What if we said all black men don't take care of their kids, they are narrow minded thug wannabes and etc? I think maybe the men who are saying that are targeting the wrong women. They need to quit going for what they think is a 10 and look at their own faults. At the end of the day, a big butt sags, beauty fades and a thin waist expands. It's whats upstairs that's going to suffice.

You have men of other races who love the stuff that most black men don't appreciate. The other day, I heard this  guy (who wasn't black) saying that he love's how black women are strong and they aren't afraid to speak their mind. And black men wonder why black women are starting to marry/date men outside their race.